I want us to work things out, but his inability to orgasm makes me wonder if he is still cheating
I am a 36-year-old married woman and recently found out my husband was cheating on me. He says there was no sex involved, but he was very close to another woman for a couple of weeks. I have decided to try to work it out with him. We have had sex twice since I learned about the affair, but I cannot make him achieve orgasm, which makes me feel awful as a wife and as a woman. Is this psychological on his part or is he still being naughty – or am I overthinking everything? He says he doesn’t know the cause, but that it’s not me.
Try to believe him. Male orgasm can be elusive and occasionally mysterious – even to the owner of the penis. He probably has feelings such as guilt, confusion and anxiety that may be affecting his ability to ejaculate. Each partner’s sexual response is connected to the overall couple connection – which in your case has been seriously damaged.
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