My life in sex: ‘The HIV medication my wife is on completely inhibits her libido’

The man whose wife is HIV positive

I met my wife when we were 19. We were friends and didn’t get together until we were in our early 30s. When she became pregnant a few months later, we were overjoyed; but our joy soon turned to fear when a routine blood test showed she was HIV positive. She’d been married previously and it transpired her ex-husband had contracted the virus after sleeping with prostitutes, unbeknownto her.

It was a shock to say the least. There were so many questions. Am I positive as well? Is this a death sentence? Should we keep the baby? It was almost worse when we found out I was negative, because she was then scared she might infect me. We spent hours crying together, trying to figure out where this would lead our lives, and decided to stay together.

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