The secret to... sex in a long-term relationship

Don’t panic during a drought, but make an effort, show tenderness and forget ‘goal’ sex

Remember why you fell in love. What attracted you to each other probably hasn’t gone, but lots of other things are competing for your attention. Life is full of routine, and sex will fall into a rut. Accept it will ebb and flow, and don’t panic during a drought. It doesn’t mean your relationship is in danger.

Bear in mind that what you both like, sexually, may change over time. Keep tabs on the subtle changes, and take responsibility for updating yourself. Beware reading books or going to workshops – it can take the joy out of it.

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