It was a long time ago and he’s clearly ashamed of it… Mariella Frostrup is puzzled by a woman’s anger
The dilemma I’m writing because my partner of seven years told me that he lost his virginity to a sex worker as a late teen while away with the army. He said he felt pressured by a so-called friend to do this and didn’t want to be the only virgin. I was shocked, because he’d always told me he’d lost his virginity to his first girlfriend. He insisted a condom was used, but I insisted he was tested for STIs, which he agreed to at the time.
During the following days he was passive about this, then annoyed and quite rude, which made it seem like a false promise. He behaved this way because he was scared of being tested, but it didn’t make it OK or put me at ease. I then found a service where tests can be ordered online, so we have both been tested and await results.
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