If your mother is living beyond her means, you’re right to be worried, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon Smith, but the question to ask her is why
My not-quite-elderly parents split a year ago and are starting divorce proceedings. My mother’s spending habits are worrying me. She had a difficult childhood, grew up in poverty but became financially successful in her adult life. She’s enjoyed a privileged lifestyle the past 20 years but has never been particularly extravagant.
Since the split she has been filling her emotional needs by purchasing designer shoes, handbags, renting a townhouse and fitting it out. After helping her with some life admin, at her request, I’m certain that she is living outside her means.
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